Friday, June 5, 2009


So Grant gets home last night and is in a really bad mood. I asked him what was wrong and he informs me that his Master Sargent is making him go to Sargents course up in palm springs. Well that wouldn't be that bad expect its going to be right after our wedding and he will be gone for 2 months! Talk about disappointing. Oh well guess its time to start getting use to military life. He said he was going to try to see if he could get it pushed back a few months so it doesn't interfere with visitation with my step daughter. But I'm not holding my breath, and his ex keeps telling him that if he has to miss a visitation for some reason that he doesnt get to reschedual it he just looses that time with his daughter, it doesnt matter if its a military reason or what. And her current husband is also in the military so she should understand! She is also making us change one of the visitations because she is having a baby which whatever its sammy's little sibling an we dont mind changing something if its what is best for sammy but to make us change our schedual and then not allow for us needing to change something such a messed up move! I so wish we had the money to do something about that. Anyways, just wanted to vent about the last nights frustrations. Thanks for listening.

On to better news the wedding is in a few weeks and I can't wait for it to be over. My mom, bless her heart, i swear has thought of every little detail possible that may need some sort of planning, even things that dont need planing she will call me and have at least 15 min conversation about it. The other day she called freaking out because the person she was going to get the flowers from fell through and i needed to help find someone else, well she called like 20 min later because she kept getting a wrong number from someone so i told her to call that person back and tell them it was a wrong number and to get to right number. Then the next day she called saying she got the flowers. I know its going to be an amazing day and I really can't wait for it! I mean i really dont want to wait anymore!


  1. Firstly congrats on the wedding..sad to hear abt the visitations..the children are the worst sufferers in all this!!
    but i hope u guys have a great wedding and a quick honeymoon trip following it :)

  2. I hate it when work puts them in a bad mood! I wonder what it must be like for people that have a job that doesn't effect every minute of their lives... Hmm....

  3. to your blog...and fellow military wife :)
    Congrats on the wedding. Hope the visitation stuff works out :)